洛神

虽然很久之前就知道洛神是蔡少芬的代表作，但是直到十几年后才有幸一睹。

这部剧是出不折不扣的悲剧，眼看那么美丽，善良的甄宓，被忘恩负义，手段狠毒的郭huan，以及背信弃义，权欲熏心的曹丕最终害掉性命的时候，我实在是愤恨不已，也许这就是TVB的魅力，纵使知道这不过是一出肥皂剧，还是会情不自禁地被带入角色的命运之中。

究竟是什么酿成了这出悲剧？

我想还是性格。

甄宓聪颖通透，智识过人，并不是纯粹的傻白甜，但是纵观全剧，她并没有用智谋去逆转自己的命运，也没有去惩攻击她的人，虽然她很明白郭huan的为人，但也许是她对于自己所秉持的仁善义原则太过自信，也许是对于郭的小人行径太过轻视，她坚持于自己的信仰，但这最终害死了他。

郭huan则是彻底的利己主义者，为了自己的贪欲，做尽坏事，她不只是狠毒，而是奸诈阴险，她和甄有着同样的聪明，但没有仁德之心，这一点和曹丕的人格着实是一脉相承，这也是她慢慢取代甄宓在曹丕心中地位的根本原因，他俩本是同路人。

而甄宓何尝不知道曹丕是什么人，其实她完全可以顺从他恭维她，放下自己的政见和原则的。

看了一半，才百度到这句剧是2002年的TVB出品，怪不得这么好看。

马浚伟的演技的确有功力，中途有好几次都看得我忍不住流眼泪。

蔡少芬的颜值当时也算是巅峰了吧，演技也不错，想想后来的宜修皇后，真无法想象是同一个人演的，到位。

连程可为这种配角的戏都很出彩，送别子文和子建那场的老泪纵横，让人潸然泪下。

没想到这句剧还挺尊重史实的，历史上曹丕的儿子继位后，曹植的确积极上书提建议，可是仍然不获采纳，怪不得40岁就英年早逝了。

南有大小乔，河北甄宓俏!南国有佳人，容华若桃李。

朝游江北岸，夕宿潇湘止。

甄宓：*善人者，人亦善之。

*民情放之四海，人皆有之。

*众星何历历，点点入长梦。

*唯宽可以容人，唯厚可以载物。

*徒善不得以为政，徒法不能以自行。

*《女箴》：人有纤微之过，戒之在省，恭敬执勤，勿羡勿妒，修身莫若敬。

*人忠而能仁，则国德彰。

*不妄求，则心安；不妄作，则身安。

*行仁则有爱，怀爱亦生仁。

*为夫妻者，义以和亲，恩以好合。

*为七步诗作劝：兄须爱其弟，弟必敬其兄；勿以纤毫事，伤此骨肉情。

*甄宓对郭女王：心慈则貌美，心恶则貌丑。

*甄宓对曹丕：为夫妻者，义以和亲，恩以好合。

你存心欺骗于我，是失义，为司马懿斥怒于我，是恩断，你我夫妻情已尽，今后，你好自为知。

子建对甄宓：*弱水三千，只取一瓢。

*自从心中至爱离开子建，就带走了我一点灵犀，也带走了我无穷的智慧。

*欲加之罪，何患无辞。

*智者顺时而谋，愚者逆理而动。

*琴已断，曲难终（惜惜临死时）*哀莫大于心死。

*此生虽有尽，恨似影随身。

*人如花飞，云如短歌，谁曾爱我，时而风光，时而坎坷，谁怜惜一个我，镜花岁月，没法断绝……*飘零逢似水，自有惜花人。

*新君痛恨，往昔全非，怀念手足，怜弟寂寞，归藩承命，当释解，难保平安。

*子建对子桓说：我和宓儿一见如故、再见倾心，早已是两情相愿、三生情定。

*时移势异，我们都身不由己。

*青青子衿，悠悠我心。

但为君故，沉吟至今。

甄宓是洛神的转世，因为天帝认为是洛嫔妄动情心而贬她下凡间饱受人间的苦楚。

这首诗一语道破了人生的无奈和轮回之苦。

寒来暑经春复冬，看得浮生总是空。

金也空，银也空，死后何曾在手中。

官也空，侯也空，尽是苦债恨无穷。

妻也空，子也空，黄泉路上不相逢。

曹植《七步诗》煮豆燃豆萁，豆在釜中泣。

本是同根生，相煎何太急。

What, when, where and who 
This story is base on the the parts in the very famous Chinese novel "The Romance of the Three Kingdom". The story focuses on one of the kingdom, the Cao family. Ada Choi plays the character Yun Fok, who is a real life historical person. Due to her intelligence and her beauty, everybody wants her, including Cao Cao, Cao Zhi and Cao Pi. Also, because of she is way too perfect, she has a very tragic story... Steven plays Cao Zhi, who is a very intelligence son of Cao Cao, but he is way too kind, so that Cao Cao could not give his power to Steven, instead, he gives his power to the oldest son Cao Pi (played by Moses). Cao Pi is more cruel than the others, that's why Cao Cao wants Ada to marry Cao Pi to help him, and advise him. However, Ada and Steven were deeply in love, but for Steven's protection, Ada had to marry Moses instead... Sonija plays the most evil person you can ever imaging, she gets jealous about everything Ada has. She thought Ada is always on top of her. Sonija plays many tricks and finally got Moses' attention and soon becomes Moses' second wife. Later, Sonija causes many people's death and even tries to get rid of Ada...I thought this series is pretty close to the history, because I know lots of the characters, and lots of the small stories in here, it reminds me a lots of things related to "The Romance of the Three Kingdom", which is my favorite Chinese classical novel.THE FACTORS 
- Hate Factor 
Let's start with the character you will hate to the bone: Sonija Kwok's Kwok Hsuan 
This is about the worst character you can ever imaging! Kwok Hsuan is not only evil, she is also cruel, ugly, and stupid! First of all, she like Steven, but Steven rejected her because Steven is in love with Ada. Kwok Hsuan gets really jealous and mad, and tries to get the second brother's attention. However, the second brother falling in love with someone else. Later, Kwok Hsan started to get Moses' attention, and uses tricks to marry Moses and becomes his second wife. Kwok Hsuan caused many people's death, such as the prostitute XiXi, Steven's wife, Steven's teacher, and Ada. I think her ending is way too nice, she should suffer a lot more than just illness.Second, the famous evil guy from the history, Sima Yi 
You might hate this character very much, because he basically changed Moses, and makes him become very cruel. However, Sima Yi himself is not as cruel as Kwok Hsuan, he is just very ambition, he wants to help Moses become the king, so that he can easily take over. I didn't think he was that bad when I read "The Romance of the Three Kingdom", but in this series, you will hate this character because of his ambition. In the real history, his son Sima Zhao is the more evil one.- Love Factor 
Ada Choi 
I think Ada gave her best performances in this series! However, her character is such a tragic (you will know why when you read further). I think Ada is the best at playing tragic characters, because she can cry really well! Have you notice most of her characters are really tragic? And, the people around her character is most likely to turn evil! For example, Louis Koo in ATE II, Nick Cheung in Secret of the Heart and in this series, it is Sonija Kwok. Poor Ada, she has to face all these terrible facts!Steven Ma 
Steven Ma was really good in this series as well. His character is also very tragic because he is too kind and too smart, just like Ada. I didn't like Steven Ma before, but after this series, I will start to pay more attention to him, because he can act and cry really well.- Pity Factor 
To all the characters who died in this series, this is the section contributed to you... 
There are lots of pity factors and lots of emotional scenes in this story, especially towards the end, the characters started to die one after another.Let's begin with the prostitute Xi Xi (played by Kei Kwan Gu) 
At the beginning, Cao Cao's first wife did not like Ada at all, so she bought this very beautiful and talented prostitute named XI XI The first wife plans to use XI XI to get Cao Cao's attention, so that Ada will be ignored. However, XI XI and Ada becomes great friends. XI XI has a very good voice, but she also has an illness that could destroy her voice. So, she tried to protect her voice really well. That's why she often rejected Cao Cao and refuses to sing to him, that makes Cao Cao really mad. Sonija uses this chance to let somebody else to learn from XI XI and tries to replace XI XI So, Cao Cao killed XI Xi's voice because he felt XI XI is not useful anymore! Poor XI XI, her life is depends on her voice, now her voice is gone, so she suicide!The second character who died is Yang Suo 
Yang Sui is a very famous person, his death is really famous, too. He is very intelligence, he can guest what Cao Cao is thinking, and he is always right. However, because of his intelligence, Cao Cao wants him dead, and the excuse Cao Cao used was the chicken ribs, that's why it makes Yang Suo's death really famous. Poor guy, he is too smart, but he died because of the chicken ribs! Ok, here is what happens: there is once, Cao Cao did not want to fight in the war, so he uses "chicken ribs" as his military order. Yang Suo knew Cao Cao will not fight the war, because of his military order. (The chicken ribs' taste is not tat great when you eat it, but if you throw it away, you will feel pity, in this case, Cao Cao was not sure if he wants to fight the war or not, so he uses chicken ribs as his order.) Yang Suo knew about Cao Cao's thinking so he tells others don't have to get ready for the war, that makes Cao Cao really mad, and he uses that excuse to kill him!The third one is Steven's wife Cui Fok 
You will probably not enjoy this character at the beginning, because she is not that nice. But, after she married to Steven, she changed a little. Cui Fok loves Steven very much, and she wants him to become the king, so her uncle and her started to help Steven by building relationships with the emperor's officers. Because of that, Cao Cao killed her... Poor girl, she completely changed to a better woman after she married to Steven, and she wants to spent the rest of her life with him and support him, but because of that, she died!The fourth one is Steven's teacher 
He is also a very smart person, also the best friend of Cao Cao. However he got killed by Sima Yi, who do not allow him to exist, because Steven's teacher is very smart, and he always support Steven.The fifthe one is Cao Cao , in the history, he is evil, but he is also a hero. In this series, the producers tried to make Cao Cao a better man. Cao Cao has a very big ambition as well, and he knew Moses is the only one that can finish his job and be the king, so he had to give the power to Moses even thoughhe likes Steven more. Cao Cao killed so many people because of Moses, because he needs to clear out any difficulties that Moses might encounter in the future. However, Cao Cao did not realized there is a more ambition guy behind Moses, which is Sima Yi. When Cao Cao realized that, he wants Moses to kill Sima Yi, but Moses would not do it, that makes Cao Cao so angry and died... Poor man, hetried so hard to work out a future for Moses, but Moses would not kill the man who is going to destroy everything for Cao family...Thesixth one is the second brother , Moses poisoned him! I can't believe he killed his own brother just like that! Poor guy, he has a wife and a daughter waiting for him, but he can never come home!The last one, the most emotional one perhaps, which is the one and only Yun Fok , her entire life is a tragic! (I will mention that more later) Sonija and Sima Yi made up the rumor that Yun Fok's son is Steven's son, and Yun Fok is still in love with Steven, that makes Moses decided to poison Yun Fok to death! Yun Fok knew about it, but she still drink the poison, so that she can protect her son, she wants to use her death to prove her son is Moses' real son...- How Come Factor 
How can Kwok Husan be so evil all of the sudden? I mean, at the beginning, she was very nice and saved Ada many times, that's why Ada and her becomes sisters. All of the sudden, she is in love with Steven, Steven rejected her, and all of the sudden she changed... I think she changed way so fast.FAVORITES 
- Cast 
Ada Choi 
As I said above, Ada did really well in this series- Character 
Ada's Yun Fok 
Okey, Yun Fok is such a tragic character, she is way so perfect, way so smart, and way so kind! Because of that, she has to go through a tragic life. Her story is like the tragic tale of the fairy Lok Sun, who is well known as the fairy in the Lok River. Lok Sun was punished into the mortal world for being the cause of rift between her husband and another god. It is not hard to guess that Yun Fok is the reincarnation of Lok Sun and will have a similar fate. Yun Fok is in love with Steven and even agreed to marry him, however Cao Cao chose Moses to be the king, and Cao Cao wants Ada to marry Moses, because he wants her to help Moses, and to advice him, remind him of kindness, also the main reason is to protect Steven Ada had to accept the marriage and helps Moses, however, Moses did not treat Ada well. After Sonija also becomes Moses' wife, Moses begins to treat Sonija better because Sonija likes to use tricks. Poor Ada, who is slowly lost faith in her husband and her friend Sonija... At the end, she died because of the two, poor girl!Steven Ma's Cao Zhi 
Cao Zhi is just like Ada, really smart, really perfect and really kind. Because of his kindness, Cao Cao could not gives the power to Steven even though Steven is his favorite son. Cao Cao knew if he gave Steven the power, Moses will not able to give up, he will try to destroy everything. For Steven's protection, Cao Cao gave the power to Moses and let Steven's true love Ada also marry to Moses! Poor guy, he had to face his true love as his sister in law! Steven married to Cui Fok, who is truly in love with him, but she was killed by Cao Cao because of the way she is trying to help Steven... Later, he had to face the fact his brother is going to kill him, but he uses his intelligence to produce the very famous "seven-steps" poem, and that poem finally makes Moses regret about his way of pushing away his brothers... - Couple 
Ada Choi and Steven Ma 
These two would be perfect together, however, they can not be together because one of them is the most beautiful girl, the other one is the smartest son of the Cao family... Their destiny meant to separate them apart...- Scene 
Here comes the list: 
1. When Steven propose to Ada 
2. When all the pity factors (as I listed above) died, emotional scenes! 
3. Everytime you see Ada and Steven together, they are the perfect couple... but they can not be together... so pity for them! LEAST FAVORITES
- Cast 
Sonija Kwok 
Sorry to all the Sonija fans, I really don't think Sonija can act. I hate the way she cries or talk. Her performances skills have disapproved since "A Step Into the Past"... I don't know why the TVB producers decided to let her play in a villain role.. Her acting skills are not that good to be a villain.- Character 
Sonija's Kwok Husan 
As I said above, you will hate this character to the bone. Usually, I enjoyed the villain, because they made the stories interesting, but this character is just too stupid and too cruel. Plus, her ending is a little better than I thought, she deserves a much worse ending that just illness...Moses Chan's Chao Pi 
Moses' acting skills are average, he is good at being bad, like the character he played in Armed Reaction III. In this series, his character is not that enjoyable... - Couple 
Sonija and Moses 
I hate to see these two together! They make me sick!- Scene 
Everytime you see Moses and Sonija together!COMMENTS 
Overall, I really enjoyed this series, because it is emotional, it is tragic, I like tragic stories , I think TVB did a good job of producing the series, the outfits are wonderful, especially the girls' outfits. There are characters you will love and hate, there are performances you will love and hate, there are scenes you will / might cry, there are scenes you will hate. It is well balanced...IS IT WORTH WATCHING? 
For all the Steven and Ada fans, this is a must see! All the Sonija fans, you might like to skip this one, because it might offend your feelings!

然看到蔡少芬版的《洛神》，看了几集后没忍住连着追完了，感觉前中期的剧集反而让我感慨良多，最后几集感觉剧情走向部分还是略微让人失望，固然我也以为要因为时代和命运的局限性和必然性而产生这样的悲剧，但感觉即使是一模一样的悲剧的结局，其实在后期过程中编剧若是能更安排的巧妙一些或许是能更好的，当然我也暂时没有更好的想法，编剧已经很辛苦了，感谢编剧。

甄宓：几年前的剧，女主人设却比近些年部分电视剧的女主人设让人观感更好一些，女主是有智谋的，囿于时代的局限性能感受到甄宓虽拥有才华却依然无法自主命运的无奈，能感受到甄宓的胸怀的宽阔性，并非“圣母”，而是站在本剧甄宓的角度来看，确实是不值得同崔芣、郭嬛等人计较一些这样鸡毛蒜皮的小事，甄宓是一个有大局观，难得的那个时代在思想方面算得上较为前流的女性，只可惜当被曹操赐婚曹丕后，终究还是没逃出一些“刻板”命运。

不过我想让甄宓勇敢的依仗自己的才智去独立生活在那样的乱世确实是困难的，退一步讲，她难以抛下她的母亲、大嫂、侄女、二哥等人没有后顾之忧的去施展才华，进一步讲，那样的乱世，一个四肢健全的男子尚且难求安稳度日，遑论她的家世、美貌、才华难免会让那个时代的一些男子都会想占有她，把她当作自己的所有物，而不是让甄宓真正拥有自己的生命，即使当她真的有家人的支持，不愿作为男子的依附勇于一人凭着才华去只为自己和家人求个安身立命，也没有多少人会愿意用正眼看她吧，甚至可能遭到种种掠夺和摧残，可哀、可叹。

郭嬛：刚开始的郭嬛私以为确实也是一个敢于和命运斗争的美好的姑娘，感觉TVB剧还是有点套路化，一开始和女主相伴的善良女配都会在中后期黑化变成女主的一大敌人，唉，有一点点失望，或许我想郭嬛这个人物还是可以再立体化的一些，她虽然不如甄宓，但或许又比那个时代的部分女子好一些了，她说她要记得靠自己。

在前中期，我愿意相信她确实是为女主尽心尽力的，也大胆的敢于追求自己喜欢的人（三公子），拒绝了以她的身份依然算高攀的二公子，有一点遗憾的是，或许她可以在意识到自己的喜欢的时候向甄宓坦白她也是喜欢三公子的（像大公子和三公子互相都坦白喜欢甄宓，即使大公子比三公子后一步意识到自己的心意，可由于这个时候甄宓亦未曾表露自己非常喜欢谁，于是大公子和三公子相约公平竞争，并约定一切决定后依然不损兄弟情，虽然最后还是不如人愿，但我想这时他们的做法无可指摘），自然我也认为曹植和甄宓却有神仙眷侣的意味，可是当郭嬛不清楚曹植真正心意的时候，她也能够去表露自己的心意是不会有错的，或许和甄宓袒露心迹后，她和甄宓都会拥有更多的主动权的，甄宓或许能更快明白自己心里对曹植的感情，但也同样愿意和郭嬛公平竞争（我并不想说甄宓就拱手相让），但我想可能甄宓会选择尽快让三人进行一场开诚布公的谈话？

那么或许命运会被改写。

不过还是清醒一点，这是剧情走向啊，哈哈哈，只是私自做个臆想罢了。

她追名逐利，在此夹带一句私货，是借用自大秦帝国某部剧里看到的“大争之世，多事之时；凡有血气，皆有争心”，具体原出处不敢确定，男子照样在乱世里追求功名利禄，所以她对名利的向往我认为不曾有错，只不过由于身处那样的社会结构，她似乎很难想到去和男子相争，而是依然把女子视为自己的强力竞争对手，甚至于在后期因为被名利蒙蔽了理智和良心，越过了最基本的道德底线，以至于落得如此下场。

刘惜惜：喜欢《惜花》一曲，感觉很有几分映照人一生的意味。

刘惜惜确实是一个令人惋惜的角色，我一直还想听到刘惜惜唱其他曲子，可惜居然就这么一首了。

崔芣：感觉也是有点tvb套路化的一个角色，前期和女主以及女主身边重要女配（郭嬛）为敌，然后和女主身边重要女配（郭嬛）当了一段时间朋友共同对付女主，突然又真的意识到的女主的善良和无私，然后和女主成为好朋友了。

郭嬛和崔芣这两个角色的套路化真的是让我想到了我的童年《宫心计》里的姚金玲和万宝贤，历史真是惊人的相似。

崔芣也是《洛神》一剧里时代的牺牲品无疑了。

看完感触比较深以及比较想吐槽的就是上面这些了，都是个人短见，容我在此手动狗头保命。

想看看为什么曹子建才高八斗，最后因为跟此生挚爱分别而全无文思。

曹植：自从心中至爱离开子建，就带走了我一点灵犀，也带走了我无穷的智慧。

悲剧就是把美好的事物撕碎给你看。

看到最后几集泪流不止，为了曹植的才华，也为了甄宓的善良，在最后被赐了毒酒还为了丈夫的名声洗干净了杯子。

这大概就是古往今来的贤妻了。

也许你们当日真的私奔了，天大地大，找一处没有人的地方，草草一生。

也好过于最后阴阳两隔，双双赴黄泉。

活下去！

看梁祝的时候也在思考这个问题，你愿意投身于红尘中做一对求而不得的伴侣跟不想爱的人每夜晚餐，还是双双变成蝴蝶。

我想还是相忘于江湖吧。

黄初三年，余朝京师，还济洛川。

古人有言，斯水之神，名曰宓妃。

感宋玉对楚王神女之事，遂作斯赋，其词曰：　　余从京域，言归东藩，背伊阙 ，越轘辕，经通谷，陵景山。

日既西倾，车殆马烦。

尔乃税驾乎蘅皋，秣驷乎芝田，容与乎阳林，流眄乎洛川。

于是精移神骇，忽焉思散。

俯则未察，仰以殊观。

睹一丽人，于岩之畔。

乃援御者而告之曰：“尔有觌于彼者乎？

彼何人斯，若此之艳也！

”御者对曰：“臣闻河洛之神，名曰宓妃。

然则君王所见，无乃是乎？

其状若何，臣愿闻之。

”　　余告之曰：其形也，翩若惊鸿，婉若游龙，荣曜秋菊，华茂春松。

髣髴兮若轻云之蔽月，飘飖兮若流风之回雪。

远而望之，皎若太阳升朝霞。

迫而察之，灼若芙蕖出渌波。

秾纤得衷，修短合度。

肩若削成，腰如约素。

延颈秀项，皓质呈露，芳泽无加，铅华弗御。

云髻峨峨，修眉联娟，丹唇外朗，皓齿内鲜。

明眸善睐，靥辅承权，瓌姿艳逸，仪静体闲。

柔情绰态，媚于语言。

奇服旷世，骨像应图。

披罗衣之璀粲兮，珥瑶碧之华琚。

戴金翠之首饰，缀明珠以耀躯。

践远游之文履，曳雾绡之轻裾。

微幽兰之芳蔼兮，步踟蹰于山隅。

于是忽焉纵体，以遨以嬉。

左倚采旄，右荫桂旗。

攘皓腕于神浒兮，采湍濑之玄芝。

　　余情悦其淑美兮，心振荡而不怡。

无良媒以接欢兮，托微波而通辞。

愿诚素之先达兮，解玉佩以要之。

嗟佳人之信修，羌习礼而明诗。

抗琼珶以和予兮，指潜渊而为期。

执眷眷之款实兮，惧斯灵之我欺。

感交甫之弃言兮，怅犹豫而狐疑。

收和颜而静志兮，申礼防以自持。

　　于是洛灵感焉，徙倚彷徨。

神光离合，乍阴乍阳。

竦轻躯以鹤立，若将飞而未翔。

践椒涂之郁烈，步蘅薄而流芳。

超长吟以永慕兮，声哀厉而弥长。

尔乃众灵杂遝，命俦啸侣。

或戏清流，或翔神渚。

或采明珠，或拾翠羽。

从南湘之二妃，携汉滨之游女。

叹匏瓜之无匹兮，咏牵牛之独处。

扬轻袿之猗靡兮，翳修袖以延伫。

体迅飞凫，飘忽若神。

凌波微步，罗袜生尘。

动无常则，若危若安。

进止难期，若往若还。

转眄流精，光润玉颜。

含辞未吐，气若幽兰。

华容婀娜，令我忘餐。

　　于是屏翳收风，川后静波。

冯夷鸣鼓，女娲清歌。

腾文鱼以警乘，鸣玉鸾以偕逝。

六龙俨其齐首，载云车之容裔。

鲸鲵踊而夹毂，水禽翔而为卫。

于是越北沚，过南冈，纡素领，回清阳，动朱唇以徐言，陈交接之大纲。

恨人神之道殊兮，怨盛年之莫当。

抗罗袂以掩涕兮，泪流襟之浪浪。

悼良会之永绝兮，哀一逝而异乡。

无微情以效爱兮，献江南之明珰。

虽潜处于太阴，长寄心于君王。

忽不悟其所舍，怅神宵而蔽光。

　　于是背下陵高，足往神留。

遗情想像，顾望怀愁。

冀灵体之复形，御轻舟而上溯。

浮长川而忘返，思绵绵而增慕。

夜耿耿而不寐，沾繁霜而至曙。

命仆夫而就驾，吾将归乎东路。

揽騑辔以抗策，怅盘桓而不能去。

一首洛神赋，写尽美丽，写尽风流，写尽憧憬。

无论是剧情，台词，演员，演技，都是五星好评！

这么好的剧，才7.9分。

权势不是好东西，父子反目，兄弟成仇，友情化为乌有，一代才女，死的不体面。

里面甄宓许多台词，很有智慧。

人生是苦，但不是空，或许是许多人来世上走一遭不至于失望。

丁克一族，除了害怕养儿育女的辛苦，有些恐怕是看破红尘，世上这样苦，何苦带新生命再来一遭？

我们教育小孩真善美，然而这世界并非完全如此。

面对利益之争，多少人毫无底线？

面对恶人，面对无底线之事，自己应该如何面对和处置？

绝对需要智慧。

人生的前三十年，工作单纯美好，没碰到这么多复杂事，以后，只怕免不了面对，就算躲起来不接触，至少也要心如明镜，莫懵懂无知。

有空要多读史书，多悟道理，重新建立自己内心的规则了。

If I should stay,I would only be in the way.So I'll go, but I knowI'll think of you every step of the way.今天把下了很久的洛神看完了，看到最后很有泪点。

也才有些时刻真正懂了 上面的这一段歌词。

她不想淹没他一生的才华，所以不和他在一起。

即使深深的伤心欲绝，仍然选择了不在一起。

曹操说：你要择的是夫君，我要择的是良君。

而世上女子只有你能母仪天下，所以要她嫁给那个明君。

她不是因为曹操的话，而是因为深知不顾一切的出走对他的一生对他的才华所造成泯灭。

胸怀仁义却不能够普及苍生，所以她放手了，然后告诉他，这辈子我只能是你的大嫂。

他成婚，取了一个到最后都用命爱着他，虽然做着很多不经头脑的事但最后一心一意爱着他的人。

她成婚，嫁给了一个爱着她，但是在岁月里却没有实现诺言，被权利欲望，被甜言蜜语所左右，最后负了她一生，要了她命的人。

他永远都爱着她，她最爱的也是他。

只是她选择了不和他厮守的时候，爱情成了彼此的仰望。

每次繁华之后，她和他在花园偶遇，称呼着大嫂，三弟，说着当下的事情。

他失去了她的妻子，在他要开始真正地去爱这个妻子，爱这个家的时候。

然后他们就开始了长久的分离，每次相见，礼数之下，却是永远不能言说的爱恋和等待。

他看她成了皇后，却再没有当初那一份开心。

她嫁给了那个曾经信誓旦旦说不怕你容颜老去的人，不是因为多爱他。

因为她的心中早已经做出了抉择。

然而她是这样一个恪守的女子，他也是。

所以不再迈出一步。

她难产，只是每每相聚，难有这样的知己述说心愁。

每每分离，眼中无限的伤痛依恋无人可说。

他丧妻，带着孤子远赴他处，再回来，却是父亲亡忌，她做说客阻拦兄弟相残生灵涂炭。

于是再分离，在最后，他终于失去了她。

还有那个负了她一生的她的夫。

一误误终生。

她不知道有没有后悔后。

她只知道嫁了人，相夫，教子。

却一次次被夫所伤，当说出夫妻情分已尽的话时，就只剩了保全儿子这最后的心愿。

直到最后天人相隔。

他带着一生的眷恋，带着玉枕走了。

不知是否回想起当初爱慕而生而千里追寻，不知是否回想起她当初答应求婚的那一抹笑和羞涩。

她鼓励他关心儿子，重整信心那心痛。

只是到了最后，年华已逝，垂垂老矣，去见了她的儿子，然后再悄然落幕。

他走在河岸，看着她划船而至，说，你来接我了。

然后走去。

重温了一下小时候看的剧，个人评分7，如果单感情戏的话可能再生缘要好看些。

个人感觉前中期的剧情还是挺好看的，有诗情画意也有小打小闹。

小打小闹也挺有意思的，一路看女主克服困难，感化身边的人，可能是自己比较喜欢大团圆。

虽然是白莲，但始终寄人篱下没有身份地位，你又能做些什么，只有圈圈这种搞屎棍才能兴风作浪。

到后面一旦死人感觉不如去看三国哈哈，言情剧上的死感觉好儿戏，听说是魔改了但我也没看正史。

反正觉得很奇葩，算我看不懂吧。

有懂的朋友可以解释下但别喷我。

杨修的死是曹操不喜欢结党营私，君臣朋友间出谋划策不是很正常吗，给我一种你只能自己聪明但不能有人辅助，不能有人比你聪明，怕别人功高盖主。

老师的死反而合理多了，就因为曹丕怕老师的智谋影响三弟争取江山。

然后感情剧情的生硬，曹操明知甄宓和曹植相爱，但是硬把甄宓许给曹丕，把崔芣给曹植。

看到这里剧情就开始难顶。

前面二弟和甄宓的寡嫂相爱就以死明志，到他们的时候就不行了。

私奔了一阵就搞那种大爱，最后就定局了。

结果一是曹丕之前那么爱搞儿女私情，把甄宓得到手后又为了权利看别人不顺眼，搞女人打老婆都打三四遍，次次说自己知道错但永远有下一次，最后整死老婆的死渣男哈哈。

二是曹植硬被抢了爱人，娶了妹妹。

发展到自己成家立室，对妹妹有点爱了。

曹操却把崔芣毒死了，说是为了儿子弥补自己的错，杀个人还是媳妇，跟玩一样。

崔芣蠢是蠢了点，之前的刁蛮任性到后面也被甄宓感化了还是挺顺眼的，之后就这样随便死掉了哈哈 ，真tm炸裂 。

剧里最经典最多的台词就是欲加之罪何患无辞，说了起码三遍，憋屈死的不少啊。

尴尬，刘姬和二哥的死也很可惜。

然后最bug的剧情和两个人，一是司马懿，甄宓逼曹丕杀了他才愿意劝服二三弟。

结果找了个冒名顶替，看到了那个人头我都惊呆了，古代也不可能造一个假头吧。

最后竟然是找到了容貌相似的死囚，能搞那么像？？？

又没科技又没化妆哪里来这么巧，反正不喜欢这种巧合过头的剧情就是了。

二是郭嬛这个白眼狼搞屎棍，把她神化的有点大了，各种小手段搞破坏，最后居然还得逞了。

可以说剧情要是没了她根本不会那么狗血，曹丕的成功她也功劳很大。

但是这么一个人，最后竟然因为找不到甄宓的丫鬟，被曹丕儿子知道她与母亲有仇，慢慢折磨病死。

看到她的报应一点都不爽，还让她快活这么多年。

话说那丫鬟幼禅到底躲哪去了，居然能躲那么多年为甄宓报仇，我服了。

是我就不会搞那么多，反正自己要死，在灵堂那我就弄死郭嬛，把甄宓完成誓言。

最感人的当然还是七步诗那，其余就暂时没什么好说了。