超完美男人

相对于这部电影的内容来说，我更喜欢它的格调。

中国人，总是太紧张。

有时候就像做很多事一样，看电影看的是心情。

故事情节暂且不说，但从故事人物个性的安排上，我很喜欢里面所以人物。

无所顾忌的关注着自己的所思所想，没有种种自身的约束。

喜笑怒骂很剧场化，很美国式。

美国式的感染力，幽默又不失大气。

接受可以接受的。

拒绝本不属于的。

有时候是一种生活方式。

总觉得对电影的感觉像食物一样，是随着心情而变的。

在不同的时候，不同的心境下，看不同的电影，有不同的感觉。

现在的心情，也许就很适合看这部片子吧，这部适合穿着浴袍窝在沙发上憧憬爱情模样的片子。

People are only new on the first day. From the next, they are just people. They may make you scared and want to run away. But if you hold on and try to led them in, you will really find how beautiful the world, especially the love is.

年轻,一切都显得不重要,为了妈妈,撒谎也是好的,站在妈妈或是孩子的角度想一下,一切都变的轻松,无关紧要了.向所有的,坚强的单身妈妈致敬.

本片中的母亲太过执着于找到一个男人在一起生活，她总是看不到任何男人的缺点，看自己却满是缺点，这是一种不自信的体现，也是恋爱脑的体现，这种想法常发生在内耗的人身上，内耗的人总是会觉得自己这不完美，那不完美，而对待别人却总是称赞。

女儿为了拯救妈妈做了很多欺骗的事，但却偶然间发现或许真的找到了适合妈妈的完美男人，我一直相信宿命论，我相信每个人的一生都是上天安排好的，即使短暂的偏离轨道，最终也会回到正轨，女儿做了一系列事最后妈妈和朋友的叔叔在一起了，我的想法是缘分到了是怎么也挡不住的，其实没有女儿的这些动作，妈妈和叔叔两个人自然会相知相爱，比如妈妈偶然要去叔叔的餐厅给朋友过生日，我认为是上天安排好的剧情，从某种程度来说女儿做的一切阻碍了妈妈遇到叔叔的进度，但是缘分就是这样逃不掉的，兜兜转转最终回到了正轨。

女儿做的一切是出于好心想帮助妈妈自信起来，但是她确实做了很多出格的事，比如把叔叔的餐厅弄的一塌糊涂，借用叔叔身份欺骗妈妈，大闹婚礼，还好结婚的不是叔叔，不然就会伤害到很多人，假如叔叔不是那个超完美男人，她的做法就会适得其反，反而伤害了妈妈。

不過是一部平常不過的美國青春偶像劇，單身媽媽帶著兩女孩和不同男士約會同居分手搬家的混亂生活。

大女兒反感這樣的居無定所，並對母親來者不拒的作風表示異議；於是耍起小手段捏造了a perfect man 對她母親心存好感角色的存在。

於是母親開始對生活和愛情充滿希望，變得積極向上。

記得某人的個人資料說，每個女人都有一種特質，就是等待。

我承認的確有這樣的真相存在。

而這部片卻解開這個死結。

在你漫長地等待一個perfect man出現的時候，爲何不讓自己成為一個perfect woman..就是這句話，讓女人大夢初醒般震撼。

原本只是想要在一个轻松的夜晚选一个轻松的练习英语听力的电影看看。

结果这部本以为是青春校园烂漫爱情的电影还真把我感动到了。

蓓蓓的电影世界：http://blog.sina.com.cn/u/1167336560首先 这部影片真不是totally为了爱情。

一听这个烂俗的名字，“超完美男人”我想的就是，一不小心女主角碰到了一个超完美男人，然后经历一些曲折，一些误会，最终两情相悦，皆大欢喜。

结果，影片还真的不是。

影片一开始就出现了这个完美男人，但是，很可惜，这个完美男人并不是专属为女主角打造的。

而本片女主角看似是希拉里·达芙，实则是她和她母亲俩人。

母亲作为一个没有什么能力的单身妈咪，一心一意就准备找一个男人成为银行卡和饭托儿，结果屡屡受挫。

所以，希拉里·达芙实在是受不了母亲撒子渣男都接受，决定按照遇到的一个超完美男人Mr.Big（是的，就是《欲望城市》里那个Mr.Big，他就是完美的熟男，我都受不了）的标准去网络追求母亲。

然后，嘿嘿，我就是那么庸俗的一直在期待Mr.Big和她母亲在影片中途就碰面，发现彼此的美腻，然后最终抱得完美男人归。

结果，影片就是不那么童话，现实就是那么残酷。

完美男人听到希拉里·达芙的小把戏，完全不Care.而母亲当得知了女儿的这份努力和爱意，她才最终明白，男人不是长期饭票，自己成为饭票才是人生赢家。

所以，她拒绝了渣男的求婚，钻研烘焙，成为一名能够独立养活自己的烘焙师。

结尾，当然要安排Mr.Big看到了母亲大人认真做蛋糕的样子，这时候，母亲也不再是一个花痴范儿去添Mr.Big的脸，因为她已经不需要通过找一个男人来实现人生目标，她自己已经逐渐变成了一个完美的女人。

所以，本片实则是一部轻松讲道理的“伦理片”它告诉我们两个心灵鸡汤：【1】当我足够好，才会遇见你先要爱自己别人才会爱你。

我这时候想到了伊能静执导的那部破片《我是女王》，里面故事没有好生讲，只顾着传播心灵鸡汤，还要从宋慧乔的嘴巴里把道理说出来。

本片高明之处在于不需要通过演员的嘴巴来传授道理，而是通过真正的故事和情节发展，让我们观影者明白这样的爱情箴言这才是真正的讲故事，好么？

【2】如果世界上曾经有那个人出现过,其他人都会变成将就。

而我不愿意将就。

好吧，我承认，《何以笙箫默》这句话偏执了一点，但是还是有道理的。

我非常理解母亲大人的心理，两个娃儿要养，自己也不再是青春少女，早就掉价了，所以每次都着急把自己献出去。

于是，每一次看到一个对自己示好的男人都想，可以啦，有人爱就不错了，凑合着过日子而已个嘛。

只是到了最后，都没有一个好结局。

女儿为她量身打造一个完美男人的行为，看似幼稚，但是也让母亲第一次开始审视自己的择偶观。

为何遇到渣男？

因为自己都把自己当垃圾回收站！

虽然根据客观条件来说，上了年龄的女人有时候是要妥协，但是我们妥协的水准也是根据自身的水平在变化。

所以，当你足够优秀的时候，哪怕妥协了的对象也不至于是个渣男啊！

1.She doesn't need anybody to protect her.You don't let people close enough to hurt you in the first place.这是Adam说给Holly的，因为Holly害怕受到伤害，所以躲得远远的2.Love is friendship on fire.That's how I feel about you.Adam在MSN上对Holly（其实是妈妈）说的，把爱情形容的极其透彻---我们的友谊加上无限热情，那就是我对你的爱3.Unfortunately,new people are only new for a day.After that they are just people.They will excite you,disappoint you,even scare you a little bit.And boy,I know how attempting it is to run away when that happens.It's good for avoiding things.The problem is you end up avoiding yourself,avoiding the people you love.You end up avoiding life.So I'm gonna try to show you what a sticking at looks like.Because I want you and Zoe to be better at this than I am.一对母女都有喜欢逃避的问题，但是总是逃避着便会让她们逃避了自己，逃避了自己爱的人，逃避了生活。

所以她们决定尝试坚持，不再让自己的恐惧扼杀掉那些可能发生的美好。

向前踏出一步，勇敢表达自己的爱，不再害怕。

虽然情节摆脱不了一般的套路而且略显牵强。

但是我觉得电影本身还是可以的。

至少在无聊的时候吃着零食看还是不错的。

可以看到母女两人的美好感情。

可以看duff的囧事。

The movie centers around a single-parent family whose members try to seek love in the relatively alienated society. All through the film does one sense the “painful pleasure”, the same way as Hemingway’s heroes share “despairing courage”. It’s painful, because single-parent families do suffer a lot, especially the lack of love and fun of a traditional nuclear family. To go back to the film, the children, be they young or old, have to adapt themselves to new environment every time they move around. The children are innocent, but they seem to be reconciled to reality, whether they don’t want to lose friends, or have to repeatedly outperform themselves in order to be recognized. Even the mother in the film suffers tremendously. Her unhappiness and depression cast a shadow on other family members in turn. On the other hand, we can still get pleasure from watching this movie, for it does have a happy ending. The happy ending comes from the fact that all family members don’t los e faith, no matter how indifferent the world is towards them, and the “perfect man” isn’t un unreal thing. The shining point in the film is its conceptions. E-mail, one of the means for communication in the modern world which has been condemned since its appearance, serves as a thread for the film and shows its positive aspects for interpersonal relationship. In the movie, for instance, the Father-and -Mother relationship improves thanks to the e-mail. What else can be seen is men’s inability and impotency to deal with each other, which accords with the characteristics of post-modernism or modernism. The most interesting or rather touching plot in the film is when the truth comes out, mother forgives father as expected, but mother follows suits by pretending to be somebody else behind helping her daughter find the perfect man, which is unexpected. The title of the film has many interpretations. Firstly, on the surface, the perfect man is the one found by daughter to be exactly the man for mother. Because of his same interest with mother and his “magic power” to understand mother, he is referred to as the perfect man. Secondly, the daughter, who understands mother’s need and agony, turns out to be the perfect man. In this sense, the perfect man never exists but is made up by the “perfect” daughter. Thirdly, regardless of daughter’s efforts and all chance encounters, the perfect man in reality is the one who is around us but hasn’t been noticed by us. This notion is both encouraging and despairing, for we can be sure that there is a right man or woman for us, but it seems to be difficult to recognize him or her. From the movie, the playwriter’s attitudes towards love is traceable as well. The contrasts between the perfect man and the colleague (baker) serve as a good example. Like knows alike. The perfect man likes doing word puzzles and watching the moon, as mother does, and he picks the right music and flowers which favor mother very much. On the contrary, despite great love for mother, the colleague doesn’t know or will never know mother’s cup of tea. In the end, the playwriter makes mother choose the perfect man over the colleague, from which we can see the perfect man in the mind of the playwriter is the one who can read one’s heart. There are also a few minor flaws in the film. For example, the chance encounter between the daughter and the perfect man is a really made-up plot; without her classmate, they wouldn’t have met each other. Besides, such minor characters as the classmate is really minor, who isn’t fully portrayed as a human being. What’s more, the ending is too perfect to believe, with the two pairs coming together. All in all, it’s a good film. It’s a film giving account of our life in the solitary society and offering a way out to a certain degree.

印象最深的一句话：爱情是踏火而生的友谊整体评价：一部情节简单的放松神经的爆米花电影最意外：Ben的饰演者就是《欲望都市》中Big